“Not working” can refer to two main scenarios: taking a break from employment (either voluntary or involuntary) or realizing a current job is no longer a good fit.
1. Managing a Period of Not WorkingWhen not working, the focus often shifts to managing personal identity outside of a career and finding comfort in that status.
What to Say: A simple, direct approach is to say, “I’m not working at the moment” or “I’m in between jobs, and lately I am spending my time [working on a hobby/project]”.
Perspective: People often view this, or hear it, with envy rather than judgment. The key is to feel secure and confident, regardless of the reaction.
Safety Exception: While it is generally advised to have a new job lined up before quitting to avoid draining savings, leaving a job immediately is necessary if the environment is unsafe.
“”I’m in between jobs, and lately I am spending my time [working on a project]. How do you enjoy spending your time?” —” Reddit · r/Adulting · 3 months ago
“”I’m not working at the moment” works for me. Often the response is envy rather than judgement. I think ultimately the issue is not about what to say, but being comfortable in yourself in saying it. —” Reddit · r/Adulting · 3 months ago
2. Signs a Job is “Not Working”A job may not be working if it causes significant professional or personal strain, such as:
Lack of Impact/Growth: You don’t see the impact of your work or have no opportunities to learn new skills.
Insufficient Resources: Lack of tools, training, or time to do your job properly.
Unfair Treatment: Low compensation compared to industry standards or a lack of autonomy and trust.
Poor Work-Life Balance: The job lacks flexibility or makes it impossible to set boundaries, often leading to burnout.
3. Perspective on Extreme Work CultureConversely, some perspectives, particularly in high-intensity startups, argue that working seven days a week is necessary for success, suggesting that not working intensely means losing.
4. Transitioning OutWhen a job is no longer working, the advice is to be professional, give proper notice, and not to quit before having another offer in place, unless the environment is unsafe.
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